Adulting: Step 222: Do not say 'yes' if you mean 'no'
I really think this is one of the most important lessons a person can learn.
I have a hard time saying no when the other person wants a yes. This is, I think, a very female trait, though I’m sure males do it too. But a resentful, insincere yes is no good.
Prime example: I am so happy to loan out about 60 percent of my clothes, wary but ultimately OK with 35 percent, and…





